BEHAVIORS THAT MOTHERS SHOULD AVOID!

BEHAVIORS THAT MOTHERS SHOULD AVOID!

Raising a person, taking care of all his needs from the moment he is born, is a very difficult and laborious process. After becoming a mother, you are at the beginning of the hardest job. Every mother wants to raise her child in the best way possible. Of course, it cannot be said that mothers who take care of them voluntarily and with a thousand and one sacrifices raise their babies with faultless behavior.

Unintentional mistakes made by mothers can have serious effects on children's future lives. For this reason, you should try to be attentive to your behavior towards him from infancy and to be a researcher about how to behave.

If we take a general look at the mistakes that mothers make towards their children, they make the wrong choices that will hinder their development in the first place. What are they? For example, keeping busy with your mobile phone or tablet, which you give to be entertained when you have a job, hinders both his mental and physical development and puts him at a distance from real life. In such cases, what you need to do is to give the child an opportunity to learn to distract himself. Learning that you cannot do everything you want at the same time will contribute to your growth as a patient person. In that respect, you should have him with you while doing your work to help him get to know real life and apply it personally.

Another misbehavior is that some parents put their children at the center of their lives. Parents are so obsessed with making him happy that their children hardly ever encounter the word no. The child, who thinks that he will have easy access to everything in life, may draw a dire picture when he does not have what he wants. Over time, you cause deep wounds in the psychology of your child, for whom you do not use the word "no" and do whatever they want. However, learning that some things are not possible will have extremely positive effects on his psychological development.

 

If we look at another form of misbehavior, especially mothers are too afraid to do things that their children do not like. The biggest weakness of mothers who are almost like puppets in the hands of their children is their crying. For example, cooking a dish that her child does not like is a red line for such mothers. However, a mother should be able to convey to her with certainty that she cannot achieve everything she wants by directing her child, crying, or not eating.

Labels: Mothering mistakes, Common parenting mistakes, Harmful parenting habits
May 05, 2025
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