WHICH GROUP ARE YOU IN AS A MOTHER?

What criteria do you have against your child as a mother, decide for yourself by reading our entire article.

Experts grouped the motherhood category into four groups. The communication you have with your child gives a lot of clues about what kind of mother you are. Let's examine together the mother models that you can evaluate the pros and cons of yourself.

Authoritarian mother model:

Mothers who think for your child and decide for him are included in this group. If you make your child do what you want them to do through punishment, if you threaten that I won't love you if you act like this, if you often compare them with their peers or siblings and judge them because they do it better, if you practice discipline and set rules all the time, you will admit that you are an authoritarian mother.

Democratic mother model:

If you talk to your child, listen to what he says with interest, get his opinion on any subject and value it, you seem to be suitable for the democratic mother model. If you can discuss any idea or issue with your child, if you make rules at home and follow those rules when you want your child to obey them, if you give warnings instead of punishment for violations of rules, if you not only set the rules but also explain the reasons, if your child knows that they will not be condemned or judged as a result of this conversation, and their expectations are age-appropriate. You are the representative of the democratic mother model.

The permissive mother model:

If you can't say no in order not to offend your child and not let him/her be disappointed, you can be a mother model who says yes to everything. If you can stretch and change the rules you have set according to your child's mood of the day, if you avoid arguing with him and avoid solving the problem so that there will be no conflict, if you believe that showing your love to him is getting what he likes, if you avoid being a mother by not using the word no against your child, but always trying to be friends If you can make comments like "don't do it if you don't want to be sweet," in the face of a responsibility that your child has to fulfill, you are definitely the model of a mother who allows everything.

Disinterested mother model:

If you are unable to spend much time with your child and only meet his basic needs, if you do not have time for his physical and emotional needs, if you do not know about his friends, if you do not know about his problems or successes in education, if you have to spend your time outside frequently, depending on your job or with a friend, If you don't have a common language, you don't even know the names of your teachers and friends, if you don't express that you don't expect anything from him and don't act warmly, if you don't know where and what he does when he's away from you, we're sorry, but you may be in the model of an uninterested mother.