Today's people have already realized that they have to constantly search in order to apply the right rules of parenthood. Undoubtedly, the most difficult and serious education of our children is to educate our children, to convey the truth and to prepare them for the future as a strong individual. While doing this, of course, it is very important what kind of parent we are.
Experts grouped the parent type under three headings in their research.
Parents who focus on their child's strengths:
In the researches, they have determined that it is more correct to maximize the potential of the child by supporting the existing abilities of the child, rather than supporting his weaknesses while raising them. Research in the field of parenting shows that focusing on the child's strengths in the growth and development process is an important and effective method for a successful, satisfied and happy individual in the future.
This support of parents, who focus on their children's strengths, enables them to solve problems, cope with stress and reach the highest level of their skills and abilities, that is, to the peak of their potential.
Positive Parents:
It is the type of parent whose sole purpose is to praise their child and make him/her feel good. Parents who exaggerate and exaggerate their actions and behaviors as soon as possible mediate their children to inflate their ego. The child, who constantly has positive expectations from life, will inevitably fall into a dead end in case of negativity or failure.
Helicopter Parenting:
They are the types of parents who constantly solve their own problems for their child instead of them. Helicopter parents, who show more than necessary attention to all developmental stages of their children, especially in the field of education, follow them, and are very interested in the social problems and experiences of the child, do not allow their child to overcome the obstacles by clearing the pebbles from his path.
Which type of parent to choose:
Strengths-Focused Parenting, which minimizes parenting stress, is a method that allows the child to become more aware of his inner resources, to solve his problems and to realize his potential.
We all know that it is necessary to listen to research in order to find the right one for our children and raise them accordingly. After all, they stand in the middle of our lives for us :)
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